From Gaerwen to Blackpool: At Least We Didn’t End Up In the Black Pudding

We left off last time just barely arriving in Blackpool in one piece.

Despite having finally found Blackpool after what felt like 83 years of driving, it was now up to my car sick and useless-with-a-map travel companion to find our B&B.

We knew nothing about the B&B other than it had an available room with two twin beds and it was somewhere in Blackpool. Oh, and I guess we had an address. Duh.

We had no idea if it was near the shore or some other distinguishing landmark that might have served useful when explaining our dilemma to the 20th petrol station attendant we’d spoken to that day.

When we knew we’d be way past check-in time, we used our trusty Samsung Vodafone to get a hold of the woman managing the B&B to assure her we would be arriving, we just weren’t sure in what century.

She was super friendly and assured us she’d “keep the light on”. She even went so far as to ask where we were and tried to guide us that way.

“Oh, you’re by a brick building with white trim? Erm…”

“It’s by a fish and chips take away? Well…”

“What’s the street name? Egg Road? Dearie, I don’t think that’s a road…”

(It was Haig Road.)

After tons of miscommunication and a very poor explanation of our surroundings on our part, she eventually gave up and merrily predicted we’d be arriving in no time.

In no time, we still had no idea where the fuck we were.

When I recall this moment on my trip, I always wonder how we drove around Blackpool for a solid hour like complete imbeciles.

I guess the only real reason is that I have zero sense of direction. When I was in college, I’d leave one of the buildings, just blindly going in whatever direction felt right. My friend would have to run after me and steer me in the correct direction. Even after a year of being at the university, I had basically no idea where I was going every single day.

It comes naturally, as my dad is the same way. Except worse. So much worse. After a prime rib dinner at one of the downtown casinos one night when I was around ten, my dad and I left in his truck and lost the rest of the family convoy. Two hours later, we made it home, but not before circling the city three times and almost driving across the state line. My mom almost called search and rescue.

I’m not sure what my friend’s excuse was other than he must have been sniffing glue or picking boogers when they learned about maps in the 3rd grade, because somehow he was worse than me at directional intelligence, and that is saying a lot.

Perhaps the most stressful aspect of all of this was the fact that we were inconveniencing some poor woman. Had we made arrangements at a hostel, we’d likely have just accepted defeat and slept in the car.

After our 10th orbit in one particular roundabout that we were sure had to let out on the street we were looking for if only we went round enough times, we noticed a police car parked further up one of the streets.

In utter desperation (and I was getting really, really cranky at this point), I decided we should go ask for directions.

“You can’t just drive up behind a police car and get out. It’s like the opposite of what’s supposed to happen. They pull up behind you and they get out to walk up to your car, so…,” replied super-helpful-friend.


I wanted to pummel him.

So, of course, since he was incapable of going into to the last 12 petrol stations to ask for directions, because he’d “for sure barf” if he did, I had to walk up to the police car after pulling up behind them like a total creep.

Turns out, they were very friendly (and pretty amused) and willing to take us in the correct direction as far as the edge of their beat. I totally didn’t feel like a moron asking for police assistance in finding our B&B. Not at all.

After the policemen got us going in the right direction, we very quickly found our B&B. It’s amazing what going in the correct cardinal direction will do for you.

The B&B was completely not what I had imagined. All of the B&Bs I’ve ever seen and stayed in have been older houses, with the rooms converted to accommodate for guests. This place looked exactly like the hotel in Fawlty Towers.

The woman who we had gotten to know so well over the phone welcomed us in her robe, slippers, and, if I am remembering right, she even had rollers in.

She was really excited to see us.

She greeted us like long-lost, beloved family members. I think her overly-excited behavior had everything to do with the fact that she could now finally go to sleep.

I don’t even remember checking in. It was all a whirlwind of, “You both must be exhausted! Here, let me take that. Oh, it’s no bother! We’ll be going up the lift, if that’s all right. Well, not me, but you two. And your luggage.”

All I recall from check-in is her excitedly stuffing us and our four pieces of luggage into the smallest elevator in existence*.

We could barely utter, “Are you sure this is going to work?” before she used her entire body to push the rest of my fat still bulging out as the door tried to close.

Once the door was shut, we couldn’t move at all. I’m not even exaggerating when I say every square inch was taken up by our bodies and luggage. I had an elbow in my back, a suitcase handle in the neck, and a carry on bag somehow balancing on my head.

I risked decapitation by American Tourister to turn my head to get sight of my friend. He looked thrilled, his face smashed into my bright pink floral Vera Bradley carry on.

We were only going up two flights, but the ride TOOK FOREVER. Not only was this rickety contraption barely the size of a fucking refrigerator box, it moved about a millimeter a minute, and it sounded like it was dying a very painful and dramatic death the entire ride.


An hour later, the elevator stopped, the door slowly creaked open, and a cascade of bags, arms, legs, and a random shoe fell out of the elevator.

We stumbled, stunned and exhausted to our room.

After a few dazed moments, I asked, “WHAT THE HELL WAS THAT?”

“Dude, I think this place is creepy as fuck, and she’s totally going to grind us up in her special human-sized meat grinder. We are going be served as black pudding tomorrow for breakfast, ” my friend asserted**.

Normally, I would have totally bought into the fear and would have been like, “OMG NO WAY HOW DO YOU KNOW ARE WE GONNA DIE?” but I was too tired to care that the place was a little off.

I told him he was ridiculous and rude and that was that.

Because we couldn’t even remember the last time we had eaten, we ventured out onto the boardwalk to find anything open at the ungodly hour it was.

I can’t even accurately describe Blackpool, other than to say it was exactly like my experience on the shore in New Jersey (other than the British accents). I’m sure it’s a lovely place, but I really have no idea.

The first open take away restaurant we found, we ordered, ate, and miraculously found our way back to the B&B in our exhausted stupor in short order.

My friend was so out of it, he thought he’d finally found his Irish goddess in all places- a dingy Blackpool fish and chip shop.

On our way up to the room, my friend noted that no one else was about in the B&B and for sure we were her only victims for the night. Or, the others had already been taken.

For once in my life (because I’m always the one who is sure a place is haunted and full of murderers), I was the rational one.

I told him he was crazy and that no one was around BECAUSE IT WAS ONE IN THE MORNING. I then promptly went to sleep while he stayed up, watching out for Norma Bates.

In the morning, after a full night’s rest (for me), all was right again. We saw the other guests (definitely none were murdered in their sleep) during our delicious full English breakfast in the dining room (just like the one in Fawlty Towers). But, we didn’t eat any of the black pudding. Just in case.

Instead of doing any sightseeing along the boardwalk, we decided to see the Irish Sea before heading off to Scotland.

We had no idea what these booger things were, but my friend had a pretty good guess.

For the end of June, it was really, really cold.

*How I didn’t feel it necessary to photograph said elevator is a total mystery.

**She was adorable. Don’t listen to him.

Author: fattymccupcakes

Just a thirty-something girl trying to love herself the way she is: fat, rolls, cellulite, and fabulousness.

64 thoughts on “From Gaerwen to Blackpool: At Least We Didn’t End Up In the Black Pudding”

  1. Oh my gosh…….hysterical as always !!!!! This is going to date me for sure, but, it reminded me of the old black and white episodes of “Blondie & Dagwood” that we’d watch on Sunday afternoons when I was just a kid….lol! I especially loved your “booger” references…………lol….must be the influence of those 3rd graders…lol! Thank you once again for starting my day with a roaring belly laugh!!!!!

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    1. I loved the Blondie and Dagwood comics when I was a kid!! LOL! Gosh, you sure know you’re a teacher when you reference boogers TWICE in one post that’s not even about boogers 😂🤦🏻‍♀️. I’m glad you enjoyed this one. I really enjoyed writing it.

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  2. I’m having an awful day but reading your travel (mis)adventures mad eme laugh to tears… again! My day is now much better, thanks to you. We so need to travel somewhere together someday…

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  3. Goodness! I love Fawlty Towers and anyone who actually knows what it is, is clearly a person I need in my life. But you’re already in my life hehe! This was both horrifying and hilarious all at the same time. I’m glad that you survived to tell the tale!

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      1. hehe! Yes! Or Manuel has accessed the site and is mucking everything up. Seriously love Fawlty Towers so freaking much. The tour guide when I went to Scotland referenced it and I was the only one who laughed on the bus – so sad

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  4. I love your descriptions and I can totally imagine this fawlty towers-like place. The teeny lift sounds hilarious! At least you didn’t have to carry all your bags up those steps.

    p.s. I would totally ask a copper for directions when I’m lost! Good thinking batgirl!!

    p.p.s Do you find it easier to navigate now you have a smart phone? Or will you have to rely on your mom for your upcoming trip?

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    1. LOL @ Batgirl 😂😂😂 Yes, I do much better with the maps app on my phone!! But, unless we can get a SIM card or buy a phone over there, it won’t be possible to run the app the whole time we are driving!! We are all boning up on our map skills!!

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      1. I normally download the google maps in advance (so you can see it even offline) then add markers to google maps for the places you want to visit (like hotels)

        That way, you can see the maps offline aaaand see your little blue dot, to show where you are. I use it while in in airplane mode, to make sure I’m not using data.

        You can still use wifi in airplane mode, so I promise this helps!!

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  5. It just keeps getting better and better. Truly the vacation cursed by ….

    it would be impolite (and dangerous) to type out that name. Don’t wanna invoke something 😀

    Did you need a vacation to recover from your vacation when this was all done?

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  6. I laughed so hard at that elevator ride description I had to stop and go to the bathroom so I didn’t piss myself. XD Wow. That’s amazing. Also, I totally would have been 100% with your friend; total horror movie stuff.

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  7. I KNEW she’d greet you in her robe and slippers. I just knew it. It all sounds very Blackpooly. Though I’ve never actually been, but from what I’ve heard. The ride in the lift made me LOL. I can just so clearly imagine it all.

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      1. Mmmmm not the best. I mean, I think it’s somewhere that you’re meant to go at least once in your life. If you like amusement parks then it’s the place to go. Whenever, I confess that I’ve never been to people in the north, they are aghast! I’ll make it there at some point. The Christmas lights are meant to be great there too.

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  8. Cor! I haven’t been to Blackpool since I was 11 years old. It was cold then too and thT was the height of summer

    Arguably Booger Beach is. Much better name for the place – though the locals might end agree 😁

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      1. Well done for deciphering that. I’ve just noticed my typos. D’oh!

        Don’t think you are off the hook btw – you feature in my latest shameless post 😝 with a few other notables

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  9. I hope you have a better map reader for your upcoming adventures, LOL! I loved this, and I can’t wait to read about your new travel adventures. Oh, and I feel for your travel partner. I’m one who gets car-sick, plane-sick, sea-sick, etc. Not fun at all! Because of this, I’m always the driver. I’m lucky my husband is tolerant of me. 😉

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  10. Oh no! As much as that account is funny, I also felt sad for you both. You guys must have been so tired and then the place too wasn’t as you had expected. I think your friend had a good sense of humor 😉
    A good read this was!

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  11. This had me in absolute stitches of laughter – sounds like you had a VERY eventful ‘holiday’. Although, I do have some empathy for you both – not ideal, but in hindsight quite entertaining. One you’ll never forget. I’ve subscribed, as I cannot miss out on all your adventures and more!

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      1. OMG!!! THIS. I do the exact.same.thing. And, he’s just like, “uh huh. Yup. Right, babe.” I don’t think he sees everyone as my real friends, because you all exist behind a screen. However, somedays, I speak and relate more to my bloggies than my IRL friends.

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      2. Those friends who think you lost your mind are JEALOUS. Those kinds of friends don’t support their friends and instead put them down when really they just with they were the ones moving abroad. People like that suck!!

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